'MISUNDERSTANDING' a single word so powerful that it destroys even the strongest relationships. But before I start with this write-up i would like to quote something or in this case someone Mr. Shannon L. Alder once said " Somewhere between love and hate lies confusion, misunderstanding and desperate love."
If we truly claim to love someone, then we shouldalso trust him. Where there is love and trust, misunderstandings never uccur. Why do we always "assume" that the other person will eventually harm us, or is not faithful.
Why do we misunderstand people?? A question that always srikes me whenever I see two people fighting or arguing. And later when they pay attention to the topic or reason they realise there was nothong to fight over actually. Then why did the fight took place at the first place?? SO MANY QUESTIONS UNANSWERED........
May be, we are brought up like this....and taught to never trust anyone. Bat is this a right thing to teach to teach. I think that rather than teaching our children, the future generation, not to trust anyone, we should teach them to never break someone's trust. Don't you think it would be something more useful.
"We are all born with selfish desires, so we can relate to those feelings in others. But kindness is something made indivisually by each person....so it's easy to misundersyand when others are trying to be kind to us."-Natsuki Takaya
The HUMANS are the only species on this planet that can actually communicate with each other. They can share thier thoughs, ideas or the way they are feeling. But still the ability to understand the other person is the lowest in the humans. Now by this another question arises. Why....???
In this situation I an remembering a quote by Mr. Pandora Poikilos that " We have the unique ability to listen to one story and understand another."
The main problem s not with the speaking part. I mean if we speak truthfully waht we feel the problem is solved. The actual complicatin arises when we listen to someone with closed minds or bloked thoghts. We judge too much or i can also say we have a habit of making pre- assumptions about a person and because of this we are not able to perceive what the other person is trying to say and from here the misunderstanding arise.
Every person has his or her point of view on everything, and every person thinks that what they are thinking is the truth and others are just playing around. But it is normally always the opposite. We should always listen to every aspect before reaching to any conclusion. We should always try to understand the situaltions and other persons point of view and reason behind that.
Like it is always said never look at the person's mistake , always notice the situation in which they committed them.
I know that this single article will not change anything, but it's a start that needed to be started.......